DEACONS: THE COMPASSIONATE WAITERS OF THE CHURCH
The office of the deacon is often misunderstood and
severely undervalued, not only by the church member, but also at times
by the office-bearer himself. A pastor I know, who used to be a deacon
in his previous church, told me that when he was first elected into that
office, he was informed that his role consisted of handing out the
weekly bulletins as well as collecting and counting the offerings.
Is this the role of the deacon? Many might think so,
because this could be all they see on a Sunday morning – that, and the
efficient direction of traffic. And though these are the roles of the
deacon, there’s more – MUCH more. The diaconal role is far more
involved, as many of our deacons and their families and close friends
will attest, requiring much prayer, careful decision, and compassionate
labour.
The Meaning of "Deacon"
In the Scriptures, the word "deacon" appears several
times to refer to a particular office of the church. This is true in
Philippians 1:1, where we are shown the established nature of such an
office; and in 1 Timothy 3:8-13, where Paul gave the qualifications of a
deacon. However, the word "deacon" existed long before those letters
were written. The word "deacon" is from the Greek word diakonos,
which means "servant." That would be a good but cursory understanding of
the word. Let’s go deeper.
Waiter: The word diakonos had its origin
and concept long before New Testament times. In classical literature,
the word "deacon" was used to refer to a waiter; and of course, a waiter
serves customers at their tables. This word then came to be used of a
servant, someone who tended to the needs of a household. And
subsequently, this word was used to describe someone who served others
in a more general capacity. But primarily, the diakonos was a
waiter.
Spiritual Service: This word was subsequently
used in New Testament times in a spiritually significant sense. Christ
used the word "deacon" in Mark 10:44-45, where He said, "And
whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all.
For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to
minister, and to give his life a ransom for many." The words
"servant" and "minister" are the words for "deacon." So in this sense,
the Christian is to follow Christ’s example to minister and serve
others.
And so, this word was also used to describe the
ministry of the Apostles, as the followers of Christ. We read in Acts
6:4 that they (and subsequently, the elders) were to give themselves
"continually to prayer and to the ministry of the Word." And
another form of the word "deacon" was used to describe the ministry of
every Christian. In 1 Corinthians 12:5 we are told that the Holy Spirit
gifts Christians for service, that "there are differences of
administrations." And we are members of one body, having
different gifts so that we can serve one another.
And although the word was used in the sense of
spiritual servanthood, the idea of service as a waiter had not been
lost. Our Lord also used it in Luke 22:27, where He said, "For
whether is greater, he that sitteth at meat, or he that serveth? Is not
he that sitteth at meat? But I am among you as he that serveth."
The Jobs of the First Deacons
In the Acts of the Apostles we see a glimpse of the
early Christian church. Everyone had everything in common and they
shared everything; they even broke bread from house to house – that is,
they ate with one another and shared each other’s food. But when the
number of Christians grew larger, there were soon administrative and
spiritual problems.
We see in Acts 6 that the Greek-speaking Christian
widows were being neglected in the "daily ministration" and began to
complain. And so the Apostles asked the members of the church to choose
7 honest men to take over the work of "serving tables." The word "daily
ministration" refers to distribution, and the meaning of "serving
tables" is to wait (as in a waiter). Hence, the job of the first deacons
was to distribute food and to tend to the physical needs of the
Christians.
And what a task it was! It’s no mean feat to
distribute food to so many people and to be attentive to their needs.
The best waiters are usually those who give you what you need before you
have to ask for it, and will always find out how you’re doing. Customers
always forget good service, but will always remember bad service and
exceptional service.
But to say that the first deacons were only waiters
would be to miss the entire point. They were far more than that. The
"daily ministration" also refers to daily financial aid. When the
members of the early church sold their possessions, the money they
earned was brought to the Apostles to be distributed to those who had
need (Acts 4:35). And when they could no longer do this, they called for
the ordination of deacons.
So the deacons were to take over the work of
distributing the funds. They were to "serve tables" – not just the
dinner table, but the banker’s table. They became the bankers and
treasurers of the church, managing the vast financial resources. And
they did it especially in view of meeting the needs of the poor in the
church.
Key Points in Understanding the Diaconal Office
There are key points that we can glean for the
diaconal office today from the meaning of the word "deacon" and the
roles of the first deacons in the Bible. And what we learn is that the
diaconal office is an ordained office for the practical administration
of the church, with particular emphasis on mercy.
1. An Ordained Office: In Acts 6:6 the deacons
were appointed with the laying of hands. This ordination is to one of
the two offices of the spiritual kingdom of Christ, they being the
deacon and the elder, of which there are two – the teaching elder
(pastor) and the ruling elder.
In the Old Testament, there were 3 offices which were
anointed to the administration of the physical kingdom of God – the
prophet, the priest, and the king. In Reformed understanding, the roles
of these offices have not vanished, though in the New Testament
administration, they find different expressions. The prophetic office
belongs to the teaching elder (or pastor), who proclaims the Word of
God. The kingly office belongs to the ruling elder, who wields the Word
to rule the people of God. The priestly office belongs to the deacon,
who administers mercy to the people. In Old Testament times,
instructions concerning the care of the poor were given by Moses in the
Book of Leviticus.
And because the office is an ordained one, Christ has
listed specific qualifications. These qualifications belong permanently
to the office and are not simply entrance prerequisites – these
qualities must continue perpetually. A deacon is ordained a deacon and
stays a deacon (though he might not sit in office) until he disqualifies
himself. The fact that this office is ordained serves to show its
importance in Christ’s kingdom, its necessity, and its dignity.
2. A Merciful Office: The deacon would be looking
out for the material needs of the members, especially to meet them. As
with the elders, this would require a good knowledge and acquaintance of
the members of the church. There are poor members, sick members,
struggling members, and lonely members.
It would not be incorrect to insist that deacons
would be heavily involved in the mercy ministry of the church. Now, this
does not mean that they must be involved in the committee of the church
that looks into the financial troubles and needs of the members. But
they should be concerned with the material needs of members. Whereas the
elder might lean toward the question, "How are you doing spiritually?"
the deacon would lean toward the question, "How are you doing
physically?" And he would be quick to respond with something practical.
3. An Administrative Office: This task was
assumed by the Apostles at the start of the New Testament church.
However, there was a point where the Apostles could no longer continue
in the task of administration, because it was taking them away from
their responsibilities of praying for the flock and labouring in the
Word (studying, preaching, admonishing, counselling, comforting, etc).
And so deacons were chosen to take these
administrative works away. The main task of the deacon was to serve, and
to assist the under-shepherds of the church by taking on the burden of
managing the church’s material resources. Hence, there was a division of
labour. This is seen especially in Philippians 1:1, where Paul addresses
the bishops (overseers) of the church and the deacons. The main task of
the elder was to oversee the spiritual lives of the members – to rule
and shepherd. The deacons were to serve under the direction of the
elders.
And though there is a hierarchical structure, yet the
deacon is not an ecclesiastical errand boy or a hand extension of the
elders. A great waiter and maitre d’ knows how to run the show;
from the management of the till, satisfaction of the customers,
organization of the menu, etc. There’s expertise in economics, (human)
resource management, and other areas with newfangled names. But simply
put in Biblical categories, the waiters of the church would be excellent
stewards of God’s kingdom and store.
Conclusion
Just how much do we understand the diaconal function
in the church? Just how much do we appreciate our deacons? To minister
grace to others is not easy – it goes against the nature of the sinful
human heart – we often want to be ministered unto. However, as Christ
was servant above all, those who would serve Him as deacons need His
heart.
And let us in the church spare a thought for them as
well, and stop our murmurings, resolving instead to pray for them; and
think what it would be like to hand out a weekly bulletin at 7.30 a.m.
with a smile on our faces, direct traffic in the pouring rain, maintain
composure in front of a severely dissatisfied church member (while
feeling the disappointment of not meeting that person’s need), organize
the transport for church camp, fix the church roof, coordinate the
Easter breakfast, allocate the Sunday School classrooms for 300 kids,
oversee the student care ministry, plead for wisdom in disbursing funds
to the needy, etc. The list goes on. Let us then add these things to our
prayer list for our deacons, pleading with God to use them and bless
them. Amen. —Mark Chen
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