Children may appear like cherubs but in reality none
of them are sinless. Romans 3:23 declares the universal truth that "all
have sinned and come short of the glory of God." The word "all"
encompasses all mankind—including children. Children are therefore like
adults, desperately in need of the gospel of salvation. Without Christ,
children, left to themselves, will choose evil and turn away from God.
Children are therefore born with a sinful nature. The sin of Adam was
imputed to all individuals (Romans 5:12). David acknowledged this fact
when he wrote in Psalm 51:5, Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in
sin did my mother conceive me.
Children are sinners under God’s condemnation.
Therefore it is urgent that they hear the gospel of Jesus Christ. Their
eternal souls are at stake, to live for ever either in heaven or in
hell. There is a great responsibility borne by parents and teachers to
see them evangelized. Every child is precious to our Lord. A child can
be saved. He is never too young to understand the gospel. God’s
effectual calling will convince him of his sin and enlighten his mind to
the knowledge of Christ. When the disciples prevented the parents from
bringing their children to Jesus, He rebuked the disciples and
encouraged the children to come to Him – suffer the little children to
come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God
(Mark 10:14.) Jesus saw the children’s need. He knew that He could meet
their need, and hence invited them to Himself for eternal salvation.
Since Jesus saw the importance of reaching out to children, we must
likewise see this importance of evangelizing the young.
b. They have a Lifetime of Service for God
Once a young child is won to the Lord, he has a
lifetime of service for the Lord ahead of him. After a gospel rally, an
evangelist was asked by his wife how many people have accepted the Lord.
His reply, "Three and a half." The wife thought it was three adults and
one child. But the response was "No, it was three children and one
adult. For the children have their whole lives before them, the adult
only has a half a life left."
c. They are More Ready to hear the Gospel
Children are more easily reached than adults. Many
adults are overwhelmed with their busy schedule. Coupled along with
hardened hearts and self-centredness, this makes them difficult to
reach. But this is not so with children. They are easily taught, and
their un-prejudiced minds are more receptive to biblical truths. Having
less social and personal restraints, they respond more easily.
Children Must be Taught to Trust in Jesus
At what age does a child respond to the gospel?
Salvation is of the Lord and it is the work of the Holy Spirit that
determines this. It is not uncommon to find Sunday School material that
teaches preschool children to "love Jesus." The same material for
primary school aged children tells them that they must trust in
Jesus. This distinction of loving and trusting Jesus at various ages is
doctrinally misleading. Children are saved the same way as adults. No
one is saved by loving Jesus without trusting in Him as his Saviour.
Children mature at varying rates and the ability to
comprehend spiritual matters occurs at different points of their lives.
However, many have understood salvation by grace through faith at a very
early age. The Bible clearly teaches that children can have
faith. In Matthew 18:6, But whoso shall offend one of these
little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone
were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the
sea.
An adequate and consistent gospel message must be
presented to young children. Therefore when a child responds, it is not
because he has developed a certain capacity to respond, but because of
the work of the Holy Spirit in his life.
Therefore we must be able to present the great truths
of the gospel, including redemption, reconciliation and
propitiation—terms that present the finished work of Christ—at the
child’s level. We must be prepared to convey the glorious realities of
justification, forgiveness, regeneration, and sanctification. Hence to
do an excellent job with children, we may need an even more thorough
knowledge of the Bible than would be needed in some ministries with
young people or adults, and the ability to present it within the child’s
level of understanding.
The "Don’ts" of Reaching Children with the Gospel
Do not role play the Holy Spirit. We may fall into
the error of forcing a response from a child that pleases us and
unwittingly usurp the role of the Holy Spirit’s convicting work.
Sometimes when we ask a child whether he believes in Jesus and he says
No, we get edgy and force him to give an affirmative reply. Salvation is
of the Lord. One may plant and another may water the seed but it is God
that gives the increase (1 Corinthians 3:7-9). We must heed Jesus’
warning in Matthew 18 – to cause a little one to stumble is a serious
offence (v.6). Pushing a child into a false profession can be considered
an act of stumbling.
Do not ask close ended questions. Close ended
questions are leading questions that imply answers of either yes or no.
Examples are "You know that by trusting Jesus you will be saved, don’t
you?" "You know that Jesus died for your sins, don’t you?" A child’s
affirmative response to such questions might be due to his desiring to
please the adult or his trying to follow the crowd out of a sense of
need to belong, rather than true spiritual readiness.
Do not overemphasize fear. Fear is a powerful and
uncomfortable emotion (1 John 4:18). It may be more harmful than helpful
to overdo the element of fear when ministering to children. Fear wrongly
used can cause us to run ahead of the Holy Spirit and precipitate a
false profession. We cannot shake children fearfully over the flames of
hell. Of course, the judgment of hell needs to be taught, but it must
not be so unduly overemphasized that we literally browbeat them into
terror. One reason why so many children go into a period of spiritual
stagnation in their teens is the fact that they were frightened into
jumping on a "fire escape" rather than being warmly attracted to the
Person of Christ. Therefore we need to let the child see his own sinful
condition and that only Jesus can meet his need.
Do not create false issues. False issues include
matters such as raising one’s hand, kneeling, coming forward, talking to
an adult, and any number of things that might be imposed upon a child
arbitrarily. None of these are necessary for salvation, but we can
unwittingly make these issues important in the mind of a child and
precipitate some type of shallow response.
Do not leave the issue of the child’s personal
response indefinite. Although we are cautious not to force a profession,
we are not to negate the urgency of the response from the child.
Do not fabricate a prayer. It is common for one to
pray the sinner’s prayer with the child but if the child is carefully
instructed and the Holy Spirit has done His work then one would just
need to tell the child that he needs to speak to Jesus to tell Him of
his need and desire for salvation.
Do not tell the child he is saved—let the Word of God
do that! When a child receives Christ as his Saviour, do not respond and
say, "Now, you are saved!" We should point him to the Word of God and
let God’s Word reaffirm his salvation. We can point him to Acts 16:31 or
John 10:28.
Do not use tangible rewards in reaching out to a
child. Many gifts like candies and stationeries are given to children
who raise their hands to profess Christ. One mission school actually
allowed a child to leave school early on a particular day if he receives
Christ after a gospel service. Linking salvation to tangible rewards is
tantamount to sowing of the gospel seed on the wayside, stony or thorny
ground (Matthew 13:19ff).
The "Dos" of Reaching Children with the Gospel
Do facilitate the conviction of the Spirit. He will
convict the non-believing children of sin, righteousness and judgment.
The gospel should be presented to children in the light of the necessary
work of the Spirit in conviction. However diligence is needed to ensure
that the language in evangelism is simple and according to the child’s
level. Theological or biblical words like sin, repent, faith, grace,
eternal life, died for our sins, and forgiveness should not be taken for
granted but explained plainly. The underlying motive and universal
language which a child understands is love. When you share with a class
of children or an individual child, your non-verbal language must say,
"I love you." Your looks, actions, attitudes and words must radiate love
from the Lord.
Do draw out the child by finding out how much he
understands or misunderstands in regard to the gospel, and ascertain his
readiness to receive Christ. Ask the child to explain the way of
salvation. Listen to his answers discerningly so as to detect whether he
fully understood the salvation message. Do stick to the gospel even when
sidetracked by the child with his questions. Keep to the essential issue
of the child’s need for God’s forgiveness and saving grace.
Do stress the urgency of salvation, without
manipulation of the child’s emotions. The child must be aware that the
promise of another tomorrow is not in our hands.
Do use the Word of God. If at all possible, open the
Bible, look at it, read from it, have the child read a portion, and in
other obvious ways convey the fact that the message that was presented
comes from the Word of God. It is important for children to associate
the message with written Scripture. Remember, God’s Word will be around
and available to them long after you have left. It is His Word that God
has promised to bless (Isaiah 55:10-11), and not necessarily with
illustrations, cleverness or cute expressions.
Do encourage the child to pray. Saving faith has its
object in the Person of Jesus Christ. He is a living Saviour and the
child needs to understand that salvation comes through Christ and not
the parents or teacher. We must get out of the way and make sure that
Christ is the focal point of our message and method.
Do inquire about and review what the child did and
said in receiving Christ. This is not unduly prying into a child’s
private life but rather expressing interest in the child and making sure
the expression of faith was biblical.
Conclusion
The world through the mass media is aggressively
clamoring for each child’s mind and attention. May we as parents,
caregivers, Sunday School teachers and Children’s Ministry supervisors
give due diligence and the best of our energies and abilities to
evangelize the children that God has entrusted to us, for when a child
is won to Christ, he has a life ahead of him for the Master’s use. –QKK