Human suffering is on the increase. In recent years,
there has been a rapid increase in natural disasters: volcanoes,
earthquakes, hurricanes, tornadoes, floods, droughts and famines. Many
lives were lost. Many became homeless. Many became orphans. What’s going
on? Why does God (if there is a God, many would add,) allow these things
to happen? Is he perhaps behind it? As Christians, how would you respond
to human suffering? It is one thing to say, "Don’t worry, God will take
care of you" when you are not in it but it is another thing to say it
when you are in it.
How would you counsel someone who is going through a
storm of life? What would you say to a sick person? I always find it
hard to minister to such people. I may read a portion of Scripture to
him and say a prayer for him, but have I helped him find peace in the
midst of his suffering? Have I lifted up his soul? In my observation, I
reckon that only those who seek God earnestly and His salvation
consistently will find peace and tranquility. However, those who do not
focus on God but only on their doctors, diagnosis and prognosis will not
experience peace and tranquility. As a result, many of them give up
their faith in God. This ought not so to be. What they need to know is
that God is faithful and that He cares for them. Such assurance comes
only through the following:
1. Know Your Position in Christ
When a person is undergoing suffering, what he needs
is peace, tranquility, and assurance that everything is under God’s
control. But how can one find that restful spirit in the midst of
suffering? The answer has to do with your position in Christ.
Peter began his letter by outlining God’s plan for
the believer. He said that in eternity past God knew whom He would
choose and on that basis elected His own. Then the Holy Spirit sets
apart the elected sinner for a special work of grace. At God’s appointed
time the sinner obeyed the call of God through faith, received the
cleansing of Christ’s blood and was born again (1 Peter 1:2).
Do you know your position in Christ? Do you know the
hope of your calling? Do you know the riches of His glorious inheritance
in the saints? (Ephesians 1:3) Do you know Christ’s incomparably great
power for us who believe? And do you know what is the breadth, length,
depth and height of Christ’s love for you? (Ephesians 1:18, 19; 3:18)
Before a person experiences the peace of God in his
life, he needs to make peace with God. How to make peace with God? Paul
said that we are enemies of God and we need to be reconciled to God by
the blood of Christ (Romans 5:10). When a person puts his trust in
Christ to save him from sin, he is declared righteous in the sight of
God (Romans 5:1), he is clothed with Christ’s righteousness (Romans
3:22), he becomes a child of God (John 1:12) and he is no longer under
God’s condemnation (Romans 8:1).
Therefore, knowing your position in Christ help you
find a restful spirit in the midst of the trials of life.
2. Know Your God Personally
Do you know your God? I am not surprised that some of
you have been Christians for years and still do not know God personally.
Yes, you may know Him theologically (i.e. in knowledge), but my concern
is, do you know Him experientially (i.e. in heart)? We need both. King
David said, "And they that know thy name will put their trust in
thee: for thou, LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek thee" (Psalm
9:10). He knew his God theologically as well as experientially.
I often wonder what goes through a sick person’s
mind. What is he thinking in his suffering? Some suffer from insomnia.
So they spend the night thinking all sorts of things. The thought of
death grips them. It cripples, demoralizes and devitalizes them. What
would you say to these people besides praying for them?
There is one thing I believe you could do and that is
to remind them of the sovereignty of God. When a person is very sick,
everything falls apart. Everything seems to be out of control. God
becomes unreal to him. He has many questions about God and His doings. I
was visiting someone the other day and in the course of our
conversation, he asked me, "Why did God allow this incurable illness to
fall on me?" There is no easy answer. But one thing we could do is to
help this person to refocus his thought on God and His sovereignty. Only
then can he find peace, tranquility and assurance in the midst of his
suffering.
It is important to know your God. David knew his God
both theologically as well as experientially. As a result, it gave him
great confidence when he faced the storms of life (Psalm 27:3). Do you
know your God intimately?
3. Know Why God Permits Suffering
Oftentimes, a chronic sick person finds it hard to
accept the Bible explanation on suffering. Like the many disciples of
Jesus, on hearing His teaching said, "This is an hard saying; who can
hear it?" (John 6:60) And they left Him (John 6:66). Some of us may
react like the disciples of old. Our hearts may become hardened and
bitter against God.
Paradoxically, when a chronic sick person is told by
his doctor to take a certain course of medicine, he takes it obediently
and without asking questions. Why is it so? It is because he believes
with all his heart that his doctor’s prescription is good for him and
will not do him any harm. But when it comes to God’s remedy to
experiencing peace, he finds it hard to accept what the Bible says
concerning the means of experiencing peace and tranquility in the midst
of suffering. Strange, isn’t it?
Now if you want to experience peace and tranquility
in the midst of suffering, you need to do the following:
a) Rejoice in the Storms of Life
When Paul was in prison, he exhorted his readers to
rejoice in the Lord at all times and in all places. Like himself, they
had been facing opposition from people who were antagonistic to the
Gospel (Philippians 1:28-31).
What does it mean to "rejoice in the Lord always?" To
"rejoice in the Lord always" means when circumstances are most promising
and to rejoice in the Lord when everything is wrong (Habakkuk 3:17, 18).
Paul was not saying something that he himself did not go through in
life. In the course of his ministry, he encountered many trials of life
(Acts 16:25; 20:23; 27; 1 Corinthians 16:9; 2 Corinthians 11). The
repetition of the command "rejoice" suggests the need to maintain a
spirit of joy in the Lord despite adverse circumstances.
There is a difference between happiness and joy.
Happiness depends on circumstances. If the circumstances are fine, the
mood of gladness is there. But if the circumstances are contrary to what
you expect, then happiness is absent. However, joy does not depend on
circumstances. Joy is something that is rooted in the heart and its
delight arises from a quiet assurance that God is in control of
everything (Psalm 57:1-7; 27:3; 1 Thessalonians 5:18).
The reason why Paul was able to rejoice in all
circumstances was his understanding of God’s sovereignty. He did not
believe in accidents. He believed circumstances (good or bad) were
God-sent to refine him just as fire refines gold (1 Peter 1:6, 7; Romans
8:28; Job 23:10). Therefore, he was able to rejoice in all circumstances
(James 1:2-5).
b) Submit to God in the Storms of Life
In his letter to the persecuted Christians, Peter
charged them to commit themselves to God and to trust His faithfulness
in the midst of their sufferings. He said "Wherefore let them that
suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to
him in well doing, as unto a faithful Creator" (1 Peter 4:19). Jesus
said, "If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it
hated you. If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but
because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world,
therefore the world hateth you" (John 15:18, 19). Christians have a
different lifestyle. They are different from the people of the world.
They think differently; speak differently; behave differently. The world
cannot accept that kind of lifestyle – no dirty jokes, no smoking, no
wild parties, no womanizing, no gambling, no rock music, no pornography,
etc. So they react harshly against the Christian community by ridiculing
them.
To submit to God in times of suffering (such as being
mocked by the world) can be a problem to some people. The natural
tendency is to fight back. But Peter’s instruction for us is to continue
to do what is good and commit ourselves to God. He said, "Having your
conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they speak against
you as evildoers, they may by your good works, which they shall behold,
glorify God in the day of visitation" (1 Pet 2:12).
So the next time you suffer for righteousness’ sake
(1 Peter 4:14-16), you should entrust yourselves wholly to God, for your
suffering is according to the will of God (1 Peter 2:23).
Job was a good example. He said, "But he knoweth
the way that I take: when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold"
(Job 23:10). Job seemed to know what God is doing in his life and the
outcome of it. Therefore, he confidently placed his life in His hand and
allowed Him to shape him. Elsewhere he said, "Though he slay me, yet
will I trust in him" (Job 13:15a). This man knew what submission to
God is. As a result, he experienced peace in the midst of his suffering.
c) Mature in Faith through the Storms of Life
Peter made it clear that suffering is part and parcel
of the Christian life (Acts 14:22). He said that suffering is only for a
season, if necessary. Thereafter it will yield the fruit of
righteousness (Hebrews 12:11). Therefore, he exhorted his readers to
rejoice in their suffering (1 Peter 1:6, 7; James 1:3, 4).
Job said, "…when he hath tried me, I shall come
forth as gold" (23:10b). A leader of the persecuted church in China
said, "We Christians are like the bamboo – when you cut us down, we grow
back taller and stronger" (Bamboo in Winter).
d) Advance God’s Kingdom through the Storms of Life
God uses persecution to advance His Gospel. When
persecution came upon the early church, God’s people were scattered
everywhere preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ (Acts 8). When Paul was
in prison, he said to his concerned readers that his imprisonment had
really served the advancement of the Gospel (Philippians 1:12, 13;
4:22). Nothing, not even imprisonment, can hinder the proliferation of
the Word of God (2 Timothy 2:9, 10).
e) Encourage Others by the Experiences gained through
the Storms of Life
God permits suffering for a purpose. You may not know
why certain events happened to you at a certain period of your life.
However, in time to come, you may know why God permits those events to
happen to you. Paul was a good example. He was a man of suffering (2
Corinthians 11). He might not know why God permits "a thorn in the
flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet him" (2 Corinthians 12:7).
And he never complained to God or felt pitiful. He only pleaded with God
to heal him. But God did not heal him. Instead, He said to him that His
grace is always sufficient for him. God knows our limits. He will not
put us in a place of testing where His grace is not sufficient for us (1
Corinthians 10:13).
What did Paul learn from his sickness? He learned
that when he is weak, then he becomes strong in the Lord. Therefore, he
rather takes pleasure in his weakness so that the power of Christ may
rest on him (2 Corinthians 12:7-10; 1 Corinthians 2:1-5). Furthermore,
out of this experience, he is able to comfort others and help
them to find peace and tranquility in the midst of suffering (2
Corinthians 1:3, 4).
I believe a suffering saint can find peace and
tranquility in the midst of suffering. But before he can experience it,
he must make peace with God through Jesus Christ (Romans 5:1). May I
encourage you to read and study the Bible and make every effort to
practice the truth acquired. Don’t just be a hearer of the Word but be a
doer of it (James 1:22-25). You and I can experience peace and
tranquility in the midst of suffering if only we obey His Word. Amen. —CW